How I Find Balance — August 2014

Ted Leider explains how he has found the balance between his career and his family.

Ted Leider, 60, sole practitioner, Richmond Hill, Ont.

Our son was born 18 years ago and he was diagnosed with a serious heart defect. He had open heart surgery at 212, and, while he was recovering, it was determined he was quite severely autistic. I wanted to stay home with him, so I quit my practice and my wife, Diana, who’s also an accountant, continued working. When I started looking for services for my son, the schools didn’t want him. I found four other fathers of kids in similar situations; we pooled our resources and skills and opened our own not-for-profit therapy centre called The Shining Through Centre: Educating Children with Autism. After several years, everything was working great, so I stepped back.

I slowly started getting back into accounting, but not full time, because I still needed to be home with my son — I drop him off at school, pick him up and continue to be involved in his programming. Now that my practice is moving along well, I thought, I’m not doing much for the community. That’s why I decided to run for municipal council.

One way I balance everything is to ensure my clients understand that my son is a priority. I won’t take clients who are demanding or expect me to meet strict deadlines. Fortunately, my clients are all very understanding.

Another way my wife and I balance our family life and enjoy everything life has to offer is by bringing our son along everywhere we can — on the subway, shopping, swimming, skiing. When he’s skiing (attached to harnesses and tethers because he can’t ski alone), he laughs and sings as he goes down the hills — and that’s the best feeling in the world.

— As told to Wendy Haaf

About the Author

Wendy Haaf

Wendy Haaf is a freelance writer based in London, Ont.

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